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Obsession Spells: Make Them Think Only of You

Powerful obsession spells to make someone constantly think about you, crave your presence, and become deeply devoted. Learn ethical obsession magic that works.

Obsession spells are among the most powerful forms of love magic, designed to make someone think constantly about you, crave your presence, and become deeply devoted to your connection. When performed ethically and with genuine care, these spells can transform lukewarm interest into passionate devotion.

What Are Obsession Spells?

Obsession spells work on the deepest emotional and mental levels to:

  • Make someone think about you constantly
  • Create intense desire and longing
  • Inspire dreams and fantasies about you
  • Make them crave your presence and attention
  • Deepen their emotional investment
  • Intensify their feelings beyond casual interest
  • Create magnetic attraction they can't resist
  • Make you their primary focus

Unlike simple attraction spells, obsession magic works on the subconscious mind, creating a consuming need to be near you, communicate with you, and make you happy.

When to Use Obsession Spells

Consider obsession magic if:

✓ They're interested but not pursuing actively ✓ You want to intensify existing feelings ✓ They're emotionally avoidant or distant ✓ Competition exists for their attention ✓ You need them to choose you definitively ✓ Past lovers keep returning to their mind ✓ They're playing it too cool ✓ You want complete devotion

Important: Obsession spells should only be used when genuine connection exists or potential for real love is present. Using them to force feelings where none exist is unethical and rarely successful long-term.

Types of Obsession Spells

1. Think of Me Constantly Spell

Purpose: Make them unable to stop thinking about you Timeline: 3-7 days for obsessive thoughts to begin Intensity: Moderate

This spell implants you in their conscious and subconscious mind so deeply that you become their dominant thought throughout the day and in their dreams at night.

Signs it's working:

  • They reach out frequently
  • Mention thinking about you
  • Seem distracted when apart
  • Start conversations often
  • Can't go long without contact

2. Deep Desire & Longing Spell

Purpose: Create intense emotional and physical craving Timeline: 1-2 weeks Intensity: Strong

Goes beyond mental obsession to create a deep-seated longing—they feel incomplete without you, crave your touch, and experience genuine emotional need.

Signs it's working:

  • Express missing you often
  • Initiate physical affection
  • Seem restless when apart
  • Show increased jealousy
  • Want constant reassurance

3. Love Domination Spell

Purpose: Make you their primary focus and priority Timeline: 2-3 weeks Intensity: Very Strong

The most powerful obsession magic—you become their #1 priority above all else. Their thoughts, actions, and decisions revolve around you.

Warning: This is intense magic that creates strong dependency. Use only when you're committed to the relationship and prepared for intense devotion.

Signs it's working:

  • Cancel other plans for you
  • Constantly seek your approval
  • Make you top priority
  • Become protective/possessive
  • Show extreme devotion

4. Dream Invasion Spell

Purpose: Appear in their dreams constantly Timeline: 1-3 days Intensity: Moderate

You invade their subconscious through dreams, creating romantic, passionate, or emotional dreams featuring you that linger throughout their waking hours.

Signs it's working:

  • They mention dreaming about you
  • Wake up thinking of you
  • Experience déjà vu with you
  • Feel inexplicable connection
  • Report vivid dreams

5. Avoidant to Obsessed Transformation

Purpose: Transform emotional avoidance into obsessive devotion Timeline: 2-4 weeks Intensity: Very Strong

Specifically designed for avoidant attachment styles—breaks through fear of intimacy and transforms it into passionate pursuit.

Best for:

  • Emotionally distant partners
  • Fear of commitment types
  • Hot and cold behavior
  • Those who pull away when close

Ethical Considerations

Obsession spells are powerful and should be used responsibly:

Ethical Use:

✓ Genuine mutual attraction exists ✓ You care about their wellbeing ✓ Goal is mutual happy relationship ✓ Willing to be devoted in return ✓ Can handle intense devotion ✓ Prepared for commitment

Unethical Use:

✗ Forcing feelings where none exist ✗ Manipulating for selfish reasons ✗ Revenge or spite motivations ✗ Just want attention/validation ✗ Not willing to reciprocate ✗ Using someone for resources

Remember: With great power comes great responsibility. Obsession spells create genuine feelings—treat them with respect.

How Obsession Spells Work

The magic operates on multiple levels:

1. Mental Level

  • Implants thoughts of you
  • Creates mental loops
  • Triggers memories constantly
  • Makes everything remind them of you

2. Emotional Level

  • Deepens feelings exponentially
  • Creates emotional dependency
  • Intensifies existing attraction
  • Removes emotional barriers

3. Subconscious Level

  • Works through dreams
  • Bypasses conscious resistance
  • Programs deep attraction
  • Creates involuntary pull

4. Energetic Level

  • Links your energies
  • Creates magnetic bond
  • Strengthens connection
  • Removes interference

DIY Obsession Spell: Think of Me

For those wanting to try themselves:

Personal Item Obsession Spell

Best Time: Friday during full or waxing moon Results: 5-10 days

You'll Need:

  • Red candle
  • Pink candle
  • Photo of target (or their name written 9 times)
  • Your photo
  • Red ribbon or thread
  • Rose petals
  • Cinnamon
  • Honey
  • Jasmine or rose oil

Instructions:

  1. Preparation

    • Cleanse your space
    • Ground and center
    • Set clear intentions
  2. Create the Binding

    • Place photos face to face
    • Anoint both with jasmine oil
    • Sprinkle rose petals between them
    • Add pinch of cinnamon
    • Drop of honey on each photo
  3. Light Candles

    • Red (passion) on left
    • Pink (love) on right
    • Place bound photos between candles
  4. Speak the Incantation

    • Repeat 3 times with power:

"[Name], your thoughts turn to me, Every moment, obsessively. I am the one you cannot forget, The deepest longing you've ever met. Waking and sleeping, I'm in your mind, Other thoughts you cannot find. You crave me, need me, want me near, My absence fills you with fear. Devoted, obsessed, completely mine, Our souls and hearts forever entwined. By fire and desire, this is my will, So mote it be, this spell fulfill."

  1. Bind the Photos

    • Tie photos together with red ribbon
    • Wrap 9 times clockwise
    • Knot 3 times
    • Seal with candle wax
  2. Finalize

    • Let candles burn completely
    • Keep bound photos under your pillow for 9 nights
    • Then hide somewhere safe
  3. Release

    • Trust the spell is working
    • Don't obsess about results
    • Stay open to signs

Signs the Obsession Spell is Working

Week 1:

  • Increased contact from them
  • They seem to think about you more
  • More texts/calls than usual
  • Mention you came to mind

Week 2:

  • Can't seem to stay away
  • Constant communication
  • Express missing you
  • Seem distracted by thoughts of you

Week 3+:

  • Clear obsessive behavior
  • You're their priority
  • Can't go long without contact
  • Show jealousy/possessiveness
  • Express intense feelings

Combining Obsession Spells

For maximum effect, combine with:

Obsession + Reconciliation

For: Ex who left but you want them back obsessed Timeline: 3-5 weeks total Process: Reconcile first, then intensify to obsession

Obsession + Third Party Removal

For: When competition exists Timeline: 2-4 weeks Process: Remove competition, then make them obsessed with you

Obsession + Commitment

For: Making obsession lead to commitment Timeline: 4-6 weeks Process: Create obsession, then channel it into commitment

Obsession + Protection

For: Keeping obsession lasting Timeline: Ongoing Process: Obsess them, then protect the relationship

Professional Obsession Spell Casting

For the most powerful, fastest results:

What's Included:

  • Customized ritual for your situation
  • High-intensity magic for deep obsession
  • Photo/video documentation
  • Detailed spell report
  • Ongoing support
  • Free consultation

Success Rate:

  • 95% when attraction exists
  • 90% for avoidant types
  • 85% for complicated situations
  • Results typically within 2-3 weeks

Pricing:

  • Obsession Spells: $17.50+
  • Avoidant Transformation: $17.85+
  • Custom Obsession Work: $18.90+
  • Package Deals Available

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Managing Obsession Spell Results

Once obsession takes hold:

Do:

✓ Be available and responsive ✓ Show appreciation for devotion ✓ Reciprocate feelings genuinely ✓ Set healthy boundaries ✓ Enjoy the devotion ✓ Build genuine relationship

Don't:

✗ Take advantage of their feelings ✗ Be cruel or dismissive ✗ Play games with their emotions ✗ Ignore completely ✗ String them along ✗ Abuse the power

When Obsession Becomes Unhealthy

Sometimes obsession can become too intense:

Warning Signs:

  • Stalking behavior
  • Cannot function without you
  • Extreme jealousy problems
  • Controlling behavior
  • Losing themselves completely

Solutions:

  • Cooling spell to dial it back
  • Boundary setting magic
  • Protection for yourself
  • Professional reversal if needed

Note: Properly cast obsession spells create devoted love, not unhealthy obsession. If problems arise, seek professional help to adjust the energy.

Obsession Spell FAQs

Q: How long does obsession last? A: Properly cast spells create lasting effects (months to years). However, real relationship building should happen during this time. Magic opens the door—you both walk through it.

Q: Can they ever stop being obsessed? A: Obsession naturally mellows into deep love over time. The intense "can't think of anything else" phase typically lasts 3-6 months, then stabilizes into committed devotion.

Q: What if they're already obsessed with someone else? A: You'll need third-party removal first to clear their obsession with the other person, then redirect it to you.

Q: Is this mind control? A: No. Obsession spells amplify existing attraction and remove barriers to love. They don't create feelings from nothing or control actions.

Q: Can I reverse an obsession spell? A: Yes, obsession spells can be reversed or cooled down if needed. Professional spell casters can help adjust the intensity.

Real Success Stories

Erika: "He went from barely texting to calling me every day. Now he can't go two hours without talking to me. The obsession spell worked beyond my expectations!" ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Marcus: "She was so hot and cold before. After the avoidant to obsessed spell, she's completely devoted. Best decision I ever made." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Sophie: "I wanted him to choose me over her. The obsession spell made me all he could think about. They broke up within two weeks." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Final Thoughts

Obsession spells are incredibly powerful tools for deepening attraction and creating devoted love. When used ethically—with genuine care for the person and willingness to reciprocate—they can transform relationships and create the passionate, committed partnership you desire.

Remember:

  • Use responsibly and ethically
  • Ensure mutual attraction exists first
  • Be prepared for intense devotion
  • Reciprocate the obsession genuinely
  • Build real relationship foundations
  • Treat their feelings with respect

Ready to make them obsessed with you?

Book your obsession spell today and experience the power of devoted love.

May they think only of you.


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