My Ex Blocked Me — Spells to Get Unblocked and Reconnect (2026)

Being blocked by your ex is one of the most painful and helpless feelings in modern relationships. Every conventional avenue is cut off. You can't call, can't text, can't even see their social media. The silence is enforced.

Here's what most people don't know: being blocked doesn't stop love magic from working.

Social media blocks, phone blocks, email filters — these are surface-level barriers. Energetic connection operates on a completely different level that no app can block. The spells in this guide work on that level directly, often producing results even when every conventional communication channel is closed.

Why People Block After a Relationship Ends

Understanding why they blocked you helps you understand what the magic needs to address:

Emotional Protection: The most common reason. Seeing your posts, your messages, being reminded of you is painful when they're trying to move on or process the relationship. The block is self-protection from their own feelings — not a statement about the depth of those feelings.

Anger or Hurt: A dramatic ending, betrayal, or heated conflict may have prompted the block in the moment. Anger-based blocks often lift on their own as the acute emotion cools — magic accelerates this cooling.

Avoidant Pattern: People with avoidant attachment often block as a way of avoiding the emotional intensity of post-breakup contact. This is the avoidant's version of "I need space" taken to its extreme. The avoidant love spell combined with unblocking work is especially effective here.

Pressure or Pursuit: If contact in the period leading up to the block was frequent or intense, they may have blocked to stop the flow. In this case, the magic needs to work on distance and release — pulling back energetically — before contact can be reestablished.

Moving On: They're trying to close the chapter and move forward. This doesn't mean feelings are absent — it often means the feelings are strong enough that they need distance from them.

Each of these reasons suggests a slightly different magical approach.

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How Spells Work When You're Blocked

Blocking you on social media or your phone creates a physical barrier to one-way communication. It creates no barrier to:

• Their subconscious mind receiving energetic impressions
• Their dreams being influenced by love magic
• Their feelings being amplified or reawakened through directed magical work
• Them choosing to unblock and reach out through their own free will

This is the consistent experience of clients in blocked situations: they don't know a spell was cast, but they start thinking about you more intensely, miss you more acutely, feel drawn to check in — and eventually, they unblock and reach out.

The mechanism isn't mysterious. Magic works on the emotional and energetic level. Those layers have no blocks.

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Spells to Get Unblocked: What Works Best

Spell 1 — The Unblocking Candle Ritual

Purpose: Directly work to remove the block and reopen contact Timeline: 7–14 days Best for: Recent blocks, anger-driven blocks

What You'll Need:

• Orange candle (orange is the color of communication, social connection, removing obstacles)
• Frankincense or sandalwood oil (for spiritual clearing and opening)
• Paper with their name
• A pin or scissors to carve the candle

Method:

1. Carve into the candle: "[Name] — the barrier dissolves — contact reopens"
2. Anoint with frankincense oil
3. Write their name on the paper. Under it, draw an open gate or door (even a simple symbol: two vertical lines with a gap between them)
4. Place the paper under the candle
5. Light it and say: "The block between [Name] and me dissolves now. What was closed opens. What was sealed unseals. [Name]'s heart softens. The anger or pain that created this barrier heals. [Name] unblocks me and reaches out. Contact is restored. The path between us is clear."
6. Let the candle burn completely
7. Keep the paper until contact is reestablished

Spell 2 — The Dream Reaching Ritual

Purpose: Reach them directly through their subconscious, bypassing all blocks Timeline: 3–10 days Best for: Situations where all contact is blocked, or where you need to make them feel your presence without conventional contact

What You'll Need:

• Lavender (dream communication)
• A small photo of them (or their name written on paper)
• Amethyst crystal

Method: Before sleep, every night for 7 nights:

1. Hold the photo/paper and the amethyst together
2. Speak quietly: "[Name], I reach you now. In your sleeping mind, you feel my presence. You feel what was real between us. You think of me when you wake. The block dissolves in your heart. You reach out to me. You remember what we had."
3. Place both under your pillow
4. As you sleep, set your mind's intention on sending them pure warmth — not anger about being blocked, not desperation, just genuine love

Most clients doing this consistently report that the target reaches out within 7–14 days, often saying "I had a dream about you" or "I don't know why but you've been on my mind."

Spell 3 — The Forgiveness and Release Working

Purpose: Clear the anger or hurt that created the block Timeline: 2–4 weeks Best for: Blocks created during conflict, after a dramatic breakup, when there's significant hurt on their side

This is often the highest-leverage spell for blocked situations because it addresses the root cause rather than the surface effect.

What You'll Need:

• White candle (peace, healing, clarity)
• Paper
• Rosemary (healing and memory)

Method:

1. Write on paper: "[Name]'s pain about [describe what happened honestly] is healed and released. [Name] forgives and is forgiven. The weight of this moment dissolves. What was good between us is remembered. Love is larger than this wound."
2. Light the white candle
3. Read the paper aloud
4. Say: "I send [Name] genuine peace. I send healing for anything I did that hurt them. I release this to the universe. As [Name] heals, the block lifts naturally. Contact is restored from a place of truth."
5. Burn the paper safely
6. Take a cleansing bath with sea salt and lavender that evening

Spell 4 — The 40-Day Honey Jar

Purpose: Build consistent sweetness and longing until the block lifts naturally Timeline: 4–6 weeks Best for: Long-term blocked situations, when other spells have been tried without breakthrough

Make a honey jar with both names, rose petals, cinnamon, and lavender. Work it every day — even just holding it, warming it in your hands, and speaking your intention for 3 minutes.

The 40-day honey jar is a commitment. Many practitioners swear by it for blocked situations because it doesn't try to force a dramatic reversal — it progressively sweetens feelings until they naturally overflow into contact, unblocking, and reaching out.

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The Energy Shift That Makes Unblocking Happen

Paradoxically, one of the most effective things you can do energetically is genuinely release the outcome — not in a forced, "I'm fine, I don't care" way, but in a genuine, grounded release of the desperate need for them to unblock you.

Desperation energetically feels like pressure. And people move away from pressure.

Release feels like an open door. And people move through open doors.

Many clients report that the most dramatic unblocking moments came after they genuinely stopped checking every hour, stopped feeling desperate, and actually started feeling okay about their life. The spell was working during this time — and when they released the death-grip on the outcome, the final barrier dropped.

Cast your spell with genuine intention. Then release it to work.

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What Happens When They Unblock You: How to Respond

When the block lifts and/or they reach out — this is the moment most people handle wrong.

Don't:

• Immediately bring up the block or why it happened
• Express how hurt you were by the block
• Be cold or punishing to "teach them a lesson"
• Come on too strong now that contact is reestablished
• Immediately push for reconciliation or commitment

Do:

• Respond warmly and naturally, as if no major drama occurred
• Keep the first interaction light and positive
• Let them set the pace — they initiated the contact
• Be the version of yourself they're being drawn back toward: calm, warm, confident
• Give it a day or two before going deeper

The moment after the block lifts is fragile. Your response in the first 48 hours either builds on the magical momentum or collapses it.

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Professional Casting: When Blocked Situations Need Extra Power

Blocked situations are among the most common reasons clients seek professional casting, and among the cases where professional work makes the biggest difference.

DIY spells are powerful but have limitations when the block is:

• Long-term (months of blocking)
• Combined with significant anger or hurt
• Complicated by a third party (they're with someone new)
• Accompanied by other barriers (they've moved, changed their number, disappeared)

Professional unblocking + reunion work addresses all of these simultaneously through multiple layers of magical work, precisely timed, with personalization that DIY can't match.

Book a consultation for blocked situations — free consultation, honest assessment of your specific situation, same-day casting available.

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Real Client Results: Getting Unblocked

Simone (New Jersey): "He had me blocked on everything. Every single app. I figured it was completely over. Aurora told me the block meant nothing energetically and to trust the process. Twelve days after casting, he unblocked me on Instagram and then texted me. I still can't fully believe it." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

David (California): "She blocked me after a bad fight. I was so ashamed about some of the things said. The forgiveness and release spell Aurora cast addressed the exact wound I'd created. She reached out two weeks later and said she'd been thinking about me and felt ready to talk." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Rena (Illinois): "Four months of being blocked. I'd tried everything. Aurora's assessment was that I needed block clearing AND a honey jar together — addressing both the barrier and the sustained softening. Month and a half of honey jar work plus the unblocking ritual. He unblocked me and sent a voice message. I cried." ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

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Blocked by Ex Spell FAQ

Q: How can a spell work if I'm completely blocked everywhere? A: The block is a social media/communication feature. The energetic connection between two people who genuinely loved each other operates completely independently of apps. The spell works on the energetic level, producing changes in their feelings and thoughts that eventually cross the threshold into physical action (unblocking and reaching out).

Q: Does being blocked mean they definitely don't have feelings anymore? A: Generally, no. People who are completely indifferent don't usually need to block. The block most often reflects the intensity of feeling (too much, still) rather than the absence of it.

Q: Should I try to reach them through a third person while the spell works? A: As a general rule, no. Let the magic work without the additional pressure of you trying to reach them indirectly. The exception is if a mutual friend naturally brings you up or can genuinely help — not a scripted "please tell him I'm sorry" request.

Q: What if the block is on their end because they've moved on and are happy? A: If they've genuinely and completely moved on, spell work is less effective — there's less energetic material to work with. An honest consultation will help assess this before you invest significant time and money.

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