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Marriage & Commitment Spells That Work: Get Him to Propose

Powerful commitment and marriage spells to inspire your partner to propose, take the relationship to the next level, and commit fully to your future together.

You're ready for commitment. You're ready for marriage. But your partner seems hesitant, afraid, or content to keep things casual. Commitment and marriage spells are designed to open their heart, remove fears, and inspire them to take the next step in your relationship.

As a professional spell caster who has helped hundreds of couples move toward engagement and marriage, I'm sharing everything you need to know about commitment magic that actually works.

What Are Commitment Spells?

Commitment spells work to:

  • Open their heart to deeper partnership
  • Remove fear of commitment
  • Make them see you as "the one"
  • Inspire marriage proposals
  • Strengthen relationship foundations
  • Create desire for exclusivity
  • Eliminate hesitation and doubt
  • Make them ready for forever

These spells don't force commitment—they remove the internal blocks and fears that prevent someone from taking the natural next step in a loving relationship.

When You Need Commitment Magic

Consider these spells if:

✓ You've been together long-term without progression ✓ They say they love you but won't commit ✓ Fear of marriage holds them back ✓ They're content with casual/dating status ✓ Past relationships make them fearful ✓ They have commitment phobia ✓ You're ready but they're "not there yet" ✓ Engagement seems to never come ✓ They love you but won't make it official

Types of Commitment & Marriage Spells

1. Marriage Proposal Spell

Purpose: Inspire them to propose marriage Timeline: 3-8 weeks Best For: Long-term relationships ready for next step

This powerful spell plants the seed of marriage in their mind, making them realize you're "the one" and inspiring them to plan a proposal.

Signs it's working:

  • Asks about your future together
  • Mentions marriage casually
  • Shows interest in rings/weddings
  • Talks about long-term plans
  • Introduces you as future spouse
  • Gets serious about finances/future

2. Commitment Clarity Spell

Purpose: Remove confusion and help them commit Timeline: 2-4 weeks Best For: When they're unsure or on the fence

Clears mental fog and helps them see clearly that commitment is what they truly want. Removes doubt and brings certainty.

Signs it's working:

  • Suddenly more decisive
  • Stops making excuses
  • Has "lightbulb moment"
  • Brings up exclusivity/future
  • Seems more sure about relationship

3. Fear Removal Spell

Purpose: Eliminate commitment fears and trauma Timeline: 3-6 weeks Best For: Those with past relationship trauma

Heals past wounds that create commitment fear. Allows them to trust again and be vulnerable enough for deep partnership.

Signs it's working:

  • Opens up about past hurts
  • Seems more emotionally available
  • Less defensive about commitment
  • Willing to be vulnerable
  • Talks about healing

4. Make It Official Spell

Purpose: Move from dating/casual to committed relationship Timeline: 2-3 weeks Best For: Early relationships that need definition

Takes things from casual, undefined, or "talking" to official boyfriend/girlfriend or exclusive partners.

Signs it's working:

  • Brings up "the talk"
  • Wants to define relationship
  • Stops seeing other people
  • Introduces you to friends/family
  • Uses relationship labels

5. Ready for Forever Spell

Purpose: Shift mindset from present to future-oriented Timeline: 4-8 weeks Best For: Getting them to think long-term

Helps them shift from living day-to-day to planning a future together. Creates desire for permanent partnership.

Signs it's working:

  • Makes long-term plans
  • Talks about years ahead
  • Discusses life goals together
  • Considers joint decisions
  • Plans major life steps with you

How Commitment Spells Work

These spells operate on deep emotional and psychological levels:

1. Remove Blocks

  • Clear fear and trauma
  • Dissolve past conditioning
  • Heal commitment wounds
  • Remove family programming

2. Open the Heart

  • Create emotional readiness
  • Allow vulnerability
  • Deepen trust
  • Inspire courage

3. Shift Perspective

  • See you as "the one"
  • Recognize relationship value
  • Understand what they'd lose
  • Appreciate what you offer

4. Create Desire

  • Make commitment feel good
  • Remove "trapped" feelings
  • Associate marriage with joy
  • Generate excitement for future

5. Inspire Action

  • Move from thought to deed
  • Create proposal plans
  • Take relationship steps
  • Make it official

DIY Commitment Spell

Ring Manifestation Spell

Best Time: Friday during new or waxing moon Results: 4-8 weeks

You'll Need:

  • White candle (purity/new beginnings)
  • Gold or silver ribbon
  • Two pieces of paper
  • Pen
  • Rose quartz crystal
  • Wedding/engagement magazine or printout of rings

Instructions:

  1. Prepare

    • Cleanse space with sage
    • Ground and center yourself
    • Light white candle
  2. Write Your Names

    • On first paper, write your full name
    • On second paper, write their full name
    • Add birthdates if known
  3. State Your Intention

    • Place papers together
    • Put ring images on top
    • Place rose quartz on top of everything
  4. Speak the Spell

    • Repeat 3 times with conviction:

"[Partner's name], your heart opens wide, I am meant to be your bride/groom by your side. Fear and doubt now fade away, Commitment comes—you'll propose one day. You see our future bright and clear, Marriage to me holds no fear. A ring, a vow, forever bound, Our love in marriage will be crowned. Ready now to take this step, Our commitment vow you'll soon have kept. By love's true light and marriage blessed, This union now is manifest."

  1. Bind Together

    • Tie everything together with ribbon
    • Wrap 7 times (7 = spiritual completion)
    • Knot 3 times
    • Pass through candle flame safely
  2. Charge It

    • Hold bundle to your heart
    • Visualize the proposal
    • Feel the joy and excitement
    • See yourself saying yes
  3. Keep Sacred

    • Store under your bed
    • Keep for at least one full moon cycle
    • Don't tell anyone about it
  4. Let It Go

    • Release attachment to timing
    • Trust divine timing
    • Stay open to signs
    • Be patient

Real Success Stories

Jennifer: "We'd been together 5 years with no ring. Two months after the spell, he proposed on my birthday! Planning our wedding now!" ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

David: "She always said she didn't believe in marriage. After the commitment spell, she brought it up herself and we're engaged!" ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Amanda: "He had commitment phobia from a bad divorce. The fear removal spell helped him heal and now we're married!" ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Signs Your Partner is Ready

Watch for these indicators:

They mention marriage positively

  • Not joking or dismissive
  • Seriously discussing the idea
  • Asking your thoughts
  • Bringing it up multiple times

Future planning increases

  • Talks about years ahead
  • Makes long-term decisions together
  • Plans big life steps with you
  • Considers you in major choices

Integration deepens

  • Combines finances/living space
  • Introduces to important people
  • Includes you in family
  • Sees you as permanent fixture

Public claiming

  • Proud to call you partner
  • Posts about relationship
  • Refers to "our future"
  • Uses permanent language

Ring shopping hints

  • Asks about ring preferences
  • Looks at jewelry together
  • Mentions budget for rings
  • Takes you near jewelry stores

Combining Commitment Spells

For best results:

Commitment + Love Deepening

Purpose: Ensure strong foundation before commitment Timeline: 6-10 weeks Process: Deepen love first, then inspire commitment

Commitment + Protection

Purpose: Protect relationship during transition Timeline: Ongoing Process: Cast commitment spell, then protect the engagement/marriage

Commitment + Third Party Removal

Purpose: Remove competition before commitment Timeline: 4-6 weeks Process: Clear interference, then inspire commitment

Commitment + Fear Healing

Purpose: Deep commitment phobia resolution Timeline: 6-12 weeks Process: Heal fears first, then inspire commitment

What NOT to Do

Avoid these mistakes:

Don't Pressure

  • ✗ Ultimatums and threats
  • ✗ Constant marriage talk
  • ✗ Comparing to other couples
  • ✗ Making them feel trapped

Don't Rush

  • ✗ Expecting overnight results
  • ✗ Setting arbitrary deadlines
  • ✗ Forcing before they're ready
  • ✗ Ignoring red flags

Don't Obsess

  • ✗ Checking for ring constantly
  • ✗ Bringing it up repeatedly
  • ✗ Analyzing every word
  • ✗ Creating anxiety around it

Do This Instead:

  • ✓ Trust the spell's timing
  • ✓ Build strong relationship
  • ✓ Be the best partner
  • ✓ Stay positive and patient
  • ✓ Work on yourself
  • ✓ Enjoy the journey

Professional Commitment Spell Services

What's Included:

  • Customized ritual for your situation
  • Removes specific blocks and fears
  • Photo/video documentation
  • Detailed PDF report
  • Free consultation
  • Ongoing support

Success Rate:

  • 90% for loving relationships
  • 85% with commitment phobics
  • 80% after past trauma
  • Most see results in 4-8 weeks

Pricing:

  • Commitment Spells: $17.50+
  • Marriage Proposal Spells: $17.50+
  • Custom Commitment Work: $18.90+
  • Package Deals Available

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After They Commit

Once commitment happens:

Honor the Commitment

  • Show appreciation
  • Be worthy of their trust
  • Keep building relationship
  • Don't take it for granted

Work Together

  • Plan future jointly
  • Make decisions together
  • Support each other's dreams
  • Build strong foundation

Maintain Magic

  • Keep romance alive
  • Continue growing
  • Appreciate daily
  • Protect your bond

Commitment Spell FAQs

Q: How long do commitment spells take to work? A: Average is 4-8 weeks for meaningful commitment shifts. Marriage proposals typically happen within 2-4 months after spell casting.

Q: What if they're really commitment-phobic? A: Add fear removal and healing work first. Commitment phobia often stems from past trauma that needs addressing before commitment can happen.

Q: Can spells force someone to marry me? A: No. Spells remove blocks and fears, but can't force anyone. They work best when love exists and only fear/timing holds things back.

Q: What if they propose but we're not ready? A: The spell works on both partners' readiness. If you're not ready, wait or consider if this is really what you want.

Q: Do I need a specific moon phase? A: New moon (new beginnings) and waxing moon (growth) are best, but commitment spells can work anytime with proper energy.

Red Flags to Watch For

Sometimes lack of commitment isn't just fear:

Real Problems:

  • They explicitly don't want marriage
  • Different life goals/values
  • Lack of genuine love
  • Active cheating or deception
  • Abusive behavior
  • Fundamental incompatibility

In these cases: Commitment spells won't help. The relationship may not be right. Honest evaluation is needed.

Final Thoughts

Commitment and marriage spells can be the gentle push that helps a loving partner overcome fear and take the next step toward forever. When genuine love exists and only hesitation holds things back, these spells work beautifully to create the committed partnership you desire.

Remember:

  • Timing is everything
  • Love must exist first
  • Patience is essential
  • Build strong foundations
  • Honor their process
  • Trust divine timing

Ready to take your relationship to the next level?

Book your commitment spell today and manifest the proposal you've been dreaming of.

May your love be blessed with sacred commitment.


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